Parent Resources
Easy-to-use tools and guides for parents with intellectual and developmental disabilities — and the professionals who support them
Family Life
Daily Parenting Skills & Routines
Practical tools for everyday parenting tasks like homework help, bedtime, talking with teens, and child behavior.
Webinars for Parents
Being Part of Your Child's Life At School (Webinar)
Workbooks - Parenting
Starting a Conversation with Your Teenager (Workbook)
Using Corrective Feedback to Help Your Child Learn (Workbook)
Successful Bedtime with Your Kids (Workbook)
Connecting with Your Teenager (Workbook)
Homework Time Workbook – Use this workbook to help you supervise your child to complete homework.
Curricula
Training on Sexuality and Relationships – Learn to talk to your partner and your children about sexuality and get answers to questions. Learn to stay healthy and safe.
Visual Supports & Apps
Parenting in Pictures – Access photos that show how to parent in pictures — a visual support for parents with Intellectual Disabilities.
Improve Your Child's Behavior (App) – An app that helps you describe and then understand and change your child’s behavior using plain language.
"How To" Booklets – Easy-to-read booklets for parents with intellectual disabilities.
Adaptive Baby Care Tools – Resources used by parents with DD to help keep a baby safe and provide good care.
Partner Resources
Advice and Facts for Mothers and Expecting Mothers with Intellectual Disabilities
Community Connections & Support Systems
Finding & Using Support
Resources for identifying helpers, using eco-maps, getting respite care, connecting with advocates, and working with home visitors.
Webinars for Parents
Respite and Self-Care: How to get what YOU Need! Maximizing your Success with Home Visitors (Webinar) – $10. Created by and for self-advocates
Workbooks – Getting Help
Using an Eco-Map to Identify People Who Can Help (Workbook)
Taking Care of Yourself (Workbook) – Helps create a plan to be a better parent.
Fact Sheets – Getting Help
Finding Affordable Housing (Fact sheet)
Simple Home Fixes (Fact sheet) – Strategies to organize a home and make parenting easier for parents with disabilities.
Assessments & Tools
Eco-Map Assessment — Who Can Help Me? (Assessment)
Safety Checklist (Assessment) – From the TASP Working Effectively Training.
System Improvement Resources
TASP Organizational Self-Assessment (Self-assessment) – For agencies to evaluate support for parents with ID (outreach, evaluation, policy, environment, staff training, service models, leadership, rights, quality).
Accessing the Village: Blending Formal and Informal Supports in Parenting (System improvement checklist) – Helps consider new kinds of informal supports, especially in rural settings.
System Improvement Checklist (System improvement checklist) – A simple checklist for planning.
Health & Wellness
Health & Medical Care
Guides for doctor visits, vaccines, COVID-19 safety, and navigating healthcare with children.
Webinars
Taking Your Child to the Doctor (Webinar) – $10. Created by and for self-advocates
Workbooks – Health
Taking Your Child to the Doctor (Workbook) – Should I get my child vaccinated against COVID-19?
Preparing Your Child for the Covid Vaccine (Workbook)
Safety Resources
Ways to Keep You and Your Family Safe Right Now (Safety guidebook) – Larger font version (updated 4/7/20)
Ways to Keep You and Your Family Safe Right Now (Safety guidebook) – Standard version (updated 4/7/20)
Partner Resources – Health
How and Where to Get the Covid Vaccine (Workbook)
Coronavirus: What Is It and What Can I Do? (Fact sheet)
CoviBook: Supporting & Reassuring Children (Fact sheet) – Written in 12 languages
Green Mountain Self-Advocates (Website) – Resources including “Words to Know About the Coronavirus” in plain language
Pediatric Therapeutic Services – Plain Language COVID-19 Information (Fact sheet)
Communication Tools for Healthcare
Widgit Health (Communication boards) – Free cards to help parents and children understand health conditions and procedures
The Hospital Communication Book (Communication book) – Guidance for understanding and communicating in medical settings
The USP Pictogram Library (Communication boards) – Standardized images to convey medication instructions and warnings
Free Communication Tools (Communication tools) – Charts to support patients with sensory or learning challenges
Simply Saying (App) – Free, award-winning app that uses pictures and sounds about medical treatments
Videos – Health
Why Childhood Vaccines are Important (Video)
Where and How to Get the Vaccine (Video)
Preparing Your Child for the Covid-19 Vaccine (Video)
Relationships & Communication
Building Strong Relationships
Tools for healthy relationships, conflict resolution, identifying safe people, and strengthening family connections.
Curricula
Training on Sexuality and Relationships (Curricula) – Learn to talk to your partner and your children about sexuality, get answers to questions, and stay healthy and safe.
Workbooks – Relationships
I Am A Superhero – Finding My Strengths (Workbook) – Identify strengths and use them to plan a successful life.
Good and Bad Relationships (Workbook) – Chart to help decide if a relationship is good or bad for you and your family.
How to Handle Conflict (Workbook) – Strategies for working through conflicts using positive approaches.
Identifying Safe People and Setting Boundaries (Workbook) – Clear directions for who to allow in or out of your home.
Making Good Decisions (Workbook) – Think about outcomes of different decisions and how to make good choices.
Fact Sheets – Relationships
Identifying Safe People and Setting Boundaries (Fact sheet)
Learning & School Support
Learning & School Support
Resources for IEP meeting preparation, understanding school acronyms, being part of your child's education, and advocacy at school.
Webinars for Parents
Being Part of Your Child's Life At School (Webinar) – $10. Created by and for self-advocates
Workbooks – Education
ADA Acronyms and Abbreviations (Workbook)
When Your Child Has an IEP (Workbook) – Prepare for and participate well in IEP or 504 meetings
Partner Resources – Education
Rights, Resources & Self Advocacy
Know Your Rights & Get Help
Legal protections, what to do if rights are violated, self-advocacy skills, and speaking up effectively.
Webinars for Self-Advocacy
Finding Your Voice: Speaking So People Truly Listen (Webinar) – $10. Created by and for self-advocates
Policy Briefs & Legal Information
What to Do if a Parent's Rights are Violated (Policy brief)
Legal Decisions (For Reference)
Washington State DCYF, May 2021 (Legal decision)
Massachusetts, November 19, 2020 (Legal decision)
Oregon, December 2019 (Legal decision)
Partner Resources – Legal & Advocacy
Parents with Intellectual Disability (Policy brief)
Sara Gordon Case, Massachusetts, January 2015 – HHS/DOJ letter and Disability Scoop article
SC Legislation to Protect the Rights of Parents with Disabilities (Legislation) – Passed!
Fact Sheets – Self-Advocacy
We Are Advocates — Supporting Parents with IDD (Fact sheet)
Videos – Advocacy
The Joys and Challenges of Parenting (Video)
A Conversation with Parents — What Self Advocates Say (Video)
Websites (Resource Access)
Have a Resource to Share?
If you know of a helpful resource for parents, we'd love to hear from you! Contact us at info@achancetoparent.net to suggest an addition to our resource roadmap.
